{"id":98401,"date":"2019-08-13T18:05:47","date_gmt":"2019-08-13T18:05:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/news.microsoft.com\/?p=434011"},"modified":"2019-08-13T18:05:47","modified_gmt":"2019-08-13T18:05:47","slug":"minding-your-ps-and-qs-in-the-digital-age","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sickgaming.net\/blog\/2019\/08\/13\/minding-your-ps-and-qs-in-the-digital-age\/","title":{"rendered":"Minding your Ps and Qs in the digital age"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><strong>\u201cNot sure if you saw my last email.\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>\u201cAny update on this?\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>\u201cPer my last email.\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Chances are at least some of those phrases are familiar. They top the list of the <a href=\"https:\/\/theblog.adobe.com\/love-email-but-spreading-the-love-other-channels\/\">most irritating phrases<\/a> people use in work emails, according to a study by Adobe.<\/p>\n<p>The average worker spends more than <a href=\"https:\/\/theblog.adobe.com\/love-email-but-spreading-the-love-other-channels\/\">three hours a day<\/a> in his or her inbox \u2013 and that time is increasing. By the end of this year, we\u2019ll be sending 293 billion <a href=\"https:\/\/www.radicati.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Email_Market,_2019-2023_Executive_Summary.pdf\">emails a day<\/a> globally, according to market research from the Radicati Group. By 2023, projections put that figure at 347 billion.<\/p>\n<p><em>[Subscribe to <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.microsoft.com\/on-the-issues\/\"><em>Microsoft on the Issues<\/em><\/a><em> for more on the topics that matter most.]<\/em><\/p>\n<p>In a world of growing online communications, our digital manners are ever more important.<\/p>\n<p><strong><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-7635 size-full aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sickgaming.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/minding-your-ps-and-qs-in-the-digital-age.jpg\" alt=\" annoying email phrase chart\" width=\"652\" height=\"284\">&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In 2017, Microsoft established its Digital Civility Index, measuring people\u2019s exposure to online risks in different types of online interactions, such as trolling, mean behavior or harassment. The index measures teen and adult perceptions about the extent to which they are at risk of damaging online interactions. It ranks 22 countries by order of online civility.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-7636 size-full aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sickgaming.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/minding-your-ps-and-qs-in-the-digital-age.png\" alt=\"microsoft risk chart\" width=\"727\" height=\"388\"><\/p>\n<p>In the Digital Civility Index, the United Kingdom and the United States have emerged as strong performers, with several countries improving their standing over the past three years. However, adverse behavior is still pervasive, with people at risk from emotional and psychological damage due to their online interactions.<\/p>\n<p>So how do we translate this to our own lives? Here are four practical ways to practice safer, healthier online interactions in your everyday life.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Show empathy<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Think about the spirit in which a message will be read and understood, rather than seeing it from your perspective as the writer. The golden rule is to act with empathy, compassion and kindness in every interaction, treating everyone with dignity and respect.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pause before replying <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Receiving an unhelpful email at the wrong moment can easily elicit an angry, terse or sarcastic response. Never reply in anger, on the spur of the moment or with a quip that seemed funny at the time but could be misconstrued later.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Respect differences <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Disagreeing with another person\u2019s perspective is fine. It\u2019s a matter of how that disagreement is expressed. Diverse perspectives should always be appreciated and acknowledged, and any disagreement should be about the substance of the work rather than a personal attack. Making room for differences helps to break down echo chambers and can be constructive, sparking inspiration.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Stand up for yourself and others<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s easy to simply fire off negative feedback or delegate a whole series of tasks via email. It\u2019s far less easy to receive such emails and find an appropriate way to respond. Lead by example by celebrating positives and make sure that you don\u2019t perpetuate the issue by forwarding or further circulating problem emails.<\/p>\n<p><em>For more on our Digital Civility Index and to see how you score, visit<\/em> our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.microsoft.com\/en-us\/digital-skills\/digital-civility?activetab=dci_reports%3aprimaryr6\">Digital Civility Challenge<\/a> site<em>. And follow @<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/MSFTIssues\">MSFTIssues<\/a> on Twitter.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cNot sure if you saw my last email.\u201d \u201cAny update on this?\u201d \u201cPer my last email.\u201d Chances are at least some of those phrases are familiar. They top the list of the most irritating phrases people use in work emails, according to a study by Adobe. The average worker spends more than three hours a [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":98402,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[49],"tags":[185,50],"class_list":["post-98401","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-microsoft-news","tag-digital-civility","tag-recent-news"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sickgaming.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98401","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sickgaming.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sickgaming.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sickgaming.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sickgaming.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=98401"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sickgaming.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98401\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sickgaming.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/98402"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sickgaming.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=98401"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sickgaming.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=98401"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sickgaming.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=98401"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}