![\"Poster](\"https:\/\/1gew6o3qn6vx9kp3s42ge0y1-wpengine.netdna-ssl.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/prod\/sites\/5\/2019\/02\/Have-Your-Say-poster.jpg\")
<\/a>In an online vote conducted by the European Council for Digital Good, (a \u201csister\u201d council to Microsoft\u2019s inaugural Council for Digital Good), more than 2,000 youth from 34 countries[1]<\/a>, chose the most significant and topical online safety issues. Privacy and data protection topped the list, while child sexual exploitation, misinformation and hate speech also ranked among the top 16. Digital civility\/netiquette came in at No. 18, just missing the top 16 priorities. Yet, related topics online well-being and online safety, took the No. 12 and No. 13 spots, respectively. The 16 goals were selected to mark 16 years of international Safer Internet Day and were announced in Milan on Feb. 4, the eve of Safer Internet Day 2019.<\/p>\nOnce the 16 priority areas were identified, young people from 10 countries designed specific targets for each priority, as well as the means of achieving them. On Feb. 3, the teens memorialized their plans in posters that were displayed at a more public event on Feb. 4. Those attending the event voted on the most compelling and informative poster, with the critical topic of online well-being taking the top honor. Across these priorities, youth are calling on people around the world to work with them to reach their goals in just one year, by Safer Internet Day 2020. (Learn more at\u00a0www.smarterinternet.org<\/a>.)<\/p>\n Microsoft hosts pre-Safer Internet Day activities in Milan<\/strong><\/p>\n I had the privilege of attending this series of pre- and Safer Internet Day activities with the teens, including the working session on Feb. 3, held at the Microsoft House. There, 60 young people gathered to learn of the priority areas from members of the European council, discuss the issues and create their posters. Nine teens were then selected to prepare for three separate panel discussions the next day. I worked with and helped to prepare three incredible teens from Greece, Iceland and Italy for a panel on online well-being where sexting, cyberbullying and incitement to harm were the featured topics. The next day, I delivered a presentation about Microsoft\u2019s own Safer Internet Day release<\/a> and served as the adult respondent on the panel.<\/p>\n \u201cJust touching our screen, we are changing someone else\u2019s life,\u201d Paola from Italy told the audience during the online well-being panel. \u201cHumans are not perfect; we are not perfect, but are we being asked to be perfect\u201d for fear that all of this generation\u2019s youthful missteps will be played out online?<\/p>\n These and other questions made for a thought-provoking and compelling session, where the participants drew distinctions between growing up in decades past and growing up in an online era. They spoke of friends and classmates being driven by \u201clikes\u201d and \u201cfollowers;\u201d they debated the risks and realities of sexting and encouraged others to stand up for those being bullied or treated uncivilly online.<\/p>\n \u201cListening and heeding the voice of youth is essential in the online world,\u201d said Janice Richardson, the creator of international Safer Internet Day and the coordinator of the European council. \u201cChildren and young people are generally the early adopters of new technology, at a time when they are still developing their values and attitudes and don\u2019t yet have the life experience upon which resilience is built.\u201d (Along with university professor Ernesto Caffo of Telefono Azzurro, Italy\u2019s helpline for children and adolescents, Richardson co-sponsored the events in Milan.)<\/p>\n Adults: Be open to questions from youth about life online<\/strong><\/p>\n That is precisely why it is equally important to involve and educate parents, teachers, coaches, counselors and other adults in the ways teens and young people are engaging with technology. Youth need to be able to go to adults for advice and guidance about online risk exposure, and this is borne out in research.<\/p>\n On Safer Internet Day 2019, Microsoft released<\/a> its third annual installment of research from teens and adults in 22 countries about their exposure to 21 different online risks. Data show that now more than ever, teens around the world are turning to parents and other trusted adults for help with online issues. Across the countries surveyed, 42 percent of teens said they asked a parent for help with an online risk in the last year, up 32 percent from the previous year. Meantime, 28 percent of teens said they turned to another trusted adult, up 19 percent. In Italy, those percentages jumped to 44 percent and 21 percent, respectively, up from just 5 percent for both adult groups a year earlier.<\/p>\n The messages from these data for both adults and teens are clear. Parents and teachers need to familiarize themselves with teens\u2019 online activities and the risks young people may encounter online. Most importantly, adults need to be open to talking with youth, focusing on listening and suspending judgment. Meanwhile, teens need to reach out to grown-ups whom they trust if something they see online threatens them or makes them uncomfortable; odds are their friends and classmates are doing the same thing. (View the full 2019 research report here<\/a>.)<\/p>\n Another youth-focused event took place on Safer Internet Day, Feb. 5 in Rome. Government and law enforcement officials, representatives from technology companies and leaders of nongovernmental organizations assembled to make short presentations to some 200 young people and to respond to their questions. This event was also sponsored by Telefono Azzurro.<\/p>\n Microsoft\u2019s Council for Digital Good champions SID 2019<\/strong><\/p>\n Meanwhile, back in the U.S., members of Microsoft\u2019s inaugural Council for Digital Good<\/a> took these messages to their peers and younger kids on Safer Internet Day 2019, with several members holding workshops and after-school activities about embracing digital civility and staying safe online. Our inaugural council was made up of 15 teens from 12 U.S. states selected in 2017 to help spread the word about digital civility<\/a> and to grow a generation dedicated to safer and healthier online interactions. (Learn more here<\/a> and here<\/a>.) Although the official pilot program wound down in July 2018, several teens remain active in promoting digital civility and online safety.<\/p>\n Erin, from Michigan, hosted an event, and got 150 9- to 12-year-olds to commit to safer online habits and practices by advocating for the four tenets of the Microsoft Digital Civility Challenge:<\/p>\n Bronte, an 18-year-old from Ohio, reached out to fellow high school students, asking them what their ideal internet would look like, and suggesting they sign a \u201cpledge for a safer internet.\u201d Indigo, from California, led 50 fourth- and fifth-graders in games and activities that she created to instill good online behaviors. Other council members also held events in their schools and communities.<\/p>\n We can\u2019t say enough about the young people we\u2019ve met and continue to meet, as we spread the (still fairly new) message of digital civility. We thank them for valuing the concept and for being leaders among their peers and other youth.<\/p>\n Safer Internet Day 2019 may be in the rearview mirror, but there\u2019s still time to commit to putting our best digital foot forward by taking the Digital Civility Challenge and committing to its four ideals. It\u2019s not too late to share your pledge on social media. Use the hashtags #Challenge4Civility and #Im4DigitalCivility. For other information about online safety, visit our website<\/a> and resources<\/a> page, and for more regular news and information, connect with us on Facebook<\/a> and Twitter<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n