{"id":123392,"date":"2022-03-28T16:30:00","date_gmt":"2022-03-28T16:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/news.xbox.com\/en-us\/?p=165020"},"modified":"2022-03-28T16:30:00","modified_gmt":"2022-03-28T16:30:00","slug":"beyond-xbox-a-player-like-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sickgaming.net\/blog\/2022\/03\/28\/beyond-xbox-a-player-like-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Beyond Xbox: A Player Like Me"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"media_block\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/news.xbox.com\/en-us\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/03\/Beyond-Xbox_Film_KV.jpg\" class=\"media_thumbnail\"><\/div>\n<p>As a child, Megan Shaw was always falling. She bruised easily, seemed to be accident-prone and fainted a lot. As a teenager, she found out she had <a href=\"https:\/\/rarediseases.info.nih.gov\/diseases\/6322\/ehlers-danlos-syndromes\">Ehlers-Danlos syndrome<\/a>, a rare genetic condition that affects connective tissue. But at 23, she focuses on what she can do, not what she can\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>A native of Scotland, she loves \u201cwild\u201d (in other words non-pool) swimming in nearby lakes (including Loch Ness) with friends and family. In the winter, she uses a wetsuit, but she doesn\u2019t need to wear braces or tape in the cold water, which soothes her joints. Mountain hikes are also part of her routine \u2013 though her backpack comes with a feeding tube. She\u2019s also six months out of medical school, doing a vascular surgery rotation as a junior doctor (the equivalent of a medical residency program in the U.S.). She intends to pursue a career as a pediatric physician.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIn pediatrics it\u2019s very much about helping children live with what they have,\u201d she says. \u201cIt\u2019s about getting their symptoms controlled to a point where they can do the things they want to do.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>This is a philosophy that also drives her own approach to the disease she lives with.<\/p>\n<div class=\"video-container responsive-youtube oembed-container\"><button class=\"cookie-consent-btn cookie-consent-btn--image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.ytimg.com\/vi\/Myyb9_aZYBQ\/maxresdefault.jpg\">   <\/button><\/div>\n<p>She has never met anyone in person who also has this rare disease \u2013 though she had perused some online support forums \u2013 but recently she connected with a teenager in the U.S. who is also living with Ehlers-Danlos. They star in \u201cBeyond Xbox: A Player Like Me,\u201d the next film in the Xbox \u201cBeyond\u201d series, which began with \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/news.xbox.com\/en-us\/2020\/12\/18\/xbox-launches-xbox-beyond-generations\/\">Beyond Generations<\/a>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt was actually really easy to talk to him. It was almost like I was talking to myself a few years ago,\u201d says Shaw, who chatted with Jordan Strong, 15, through a headset while the two played the auto racing game Forza Horizon 5. Shaw played from her home, while Strong used a <a href=\"https:\/\/gamersoutreach.org\/our-programs\/project-go-kart\/\">GO Kart (Gamers Outreach Kart)<\/a> system outfitted with an Xbox Series S at a facility where he does physical therapy every other week.<\/p>\n<p>The two spent hours getting to know one another as they played the game.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m not that much older than him, but I didn\u2019t know whether we would have anything in common,\u201d Shaw says. \u201cBut it turns out we have quite a lot in common.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>They share a love of music. She plays the piano; he sings in choirs. They both have siblings who are able to do things they wanted to do but couldn\u2019t: baseball for him, diving for her.<\/p>\n<p>There was good-natured ribbing too, as Strong joked about Shaw\u2019s driving skills as they played the game. (In her defense, she notes that they do drive on the other side of the road where she lives.) They both spent time trying to find each other on the Forza map, too. Their conversation ebbed and flowed naturally, but in-between the fun chats, they also talked about some serious topics.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_445762\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-445762\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-445762 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/news.microsoft.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/prod\/2022\/03\/Therapeutic_Play_KV4-1024x539.jpg\" alt=\"A boy with headphones plays a video game \" width=\"1024\" height=\"539\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-445762\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Jordan Strong playing Forza Horizon 5 while chatting with Megan Shaw<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>\u201cWe talked about how sometimes you get medical advice, but at the end of the day you know your own body. You\u2019re the one who has to live with it,\u201d Shaw says. \u201cIt\u2019s just nice talking to someone who understands. I think at the end of the day, it doesn\u2019t matter that they are a different age from you or they\u2019re in a different country. My friends or family are really supportive, but it\u2019s quite a difficult thing to understand if you\u2019ve never experienced it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Strong, a high school freshman in a small town in Georgia, had never even talked to someone else who had Ehlers-Danlos. Though he and Shaw have different sub-types of the disease, he still found a lot of value in their conversation \u2013 and hoped to connect again.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt was really cool to see beyond Ehlers-Danlos that we share common interests and understand each other, more than just what are you going through,\u201d says Strong, who admired Shaw\u2019s active and outgoing life. \u201cThat was surprising, how she could put aside the risks a little bit.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The film emerged as the next in Xbox\u2019s experimental storytelling series that focuses on how gaming can be an important medium for connecting to others, especially during the pandemic. \u201cBeyond Generations,\u201d which debuted in December 2020, showed how a U.K.-based grandfather and grandson separated by lockdowns kept in touch over their headsets and through games.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As a child, Megan Shaw was always falling. She bruised easily, seemed to be accident-prone and fainted a lot. As a teenager, she found out she had Ehlers-Danlos syndrome, a rare genetic condition that affects connective tissue. But at 23, she focuses on what she can do, not what she can\u2019t. 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